Sleepy Sex Rape

Quick comment before I start: I was just looking at my stats, and I have 1 pageview from the keyword ‘rhyvin’. Which means that, unless this is totally random, someone Googled my username when I commented on something. LOL RAD.

Another quick comment: This post is going to mention sex again! And I’m about to put the warning on my site telling people that there’s adult content. Also maybe trigger warning for rape/sexual assault?

One of my friends posted this link on Facebook. I haven’t even finished reading it yet, but I just wanted to comment on one thing:

Passing the lubricant to the right during group sex is “bad sexual etiquette”. Having sex with someone who is asleep is rape. It simply is not possible to consent while sleeping.

Obviously, it isn’t possible to give consent while you’re asleep. However, I wouldn’t say that having sex with someone who is asleep is always rape. If you, say, have a pre-arranged, agreed-upon rule that it’s okay to do that, it’s not rape.

‘Cause my partner and I have definitely both done that to each other, and it’s totally cool. Pre-consent. Not rapey at all. Totally hilarious and awesome.

OH HEY GOOD MORNING HOW ARE YOU

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